Dating a man who has never been married

OK, Ladies, you want the honest, real, unvarnished truth about what a commitment minded, nice, cute, professional, divorced 54-year-old man really wants from you? As a guy she’s been a tremendous help in terms of understanding and relating to women in the 50 age group.

You also know that understanding men is a key to finally writing your own grownup love story. LM really says it best, so here is what he has to say after reading about the various types of 40 single women, called my Please thank Bobbi on my behalf.

If their singleness is for a season Lord, at the end of the season may they have accomplished all you intended them to accomplish while they are single and if they have that special calling to remain unmarried for a life time may they answer it with the same willing obedience as the single man Jesus did and experience the same degree of fulfillment and success.

Now Satan, I come against assignments you have issued against them to bring them misery, depression, anxiety, debt, obesity, sickness and disease, wrong relationships and anything else because they don't have a marriage partner.

You are grownup and you understand how important it is to be empathetic. They want love, companionship, romance and commitment and are doing their best to navigate the rocky shores of dating over 40.

Nice, successful, decent people who find themselves single at this time in their life.

Now why would any woman want to pick a guy who’s already been taken, when there are a million single guys around?

But, hey, hardly any of us practice what we preach, do we?

Not paying attention to women’s body language, not trying to go in for the first kiss, it’s a long laundry list of things I go “Crap, I should have done that! But despite my efforts (and the assistance of friends over the years), I have never had a girlfriend or sex.

As of recently, I try to find women between 25 and 42 years old.

I’ve read a lot about what you’ve said about “Ineffective versus Effective” and “What I want in a woman versus what she wants about me”, and I guess I’m still a bit confused.

Having an affair with a married man or falling in love with him has got to be every girl’s nightmare.

Surprisingly, a woman never really intends to fall in love, it just happens.